The tragic tale of a trans man – a woman – forced to endure a nightmare of personal agony and humiliation because she couldn't get the appropriate male underwear for when she was having a period. Told, at great length, in between stifled sobs, by the BBC:
A trans man said he locked himself away every month when he menstruated because he could not access trans-friendly underwear.
Jay-Harley Rees, 28, from Llanelli, Carmarthenshire, said there were not enough spaces where trans and non-binary people felt safe in small towns and rural areas.
He said he had to put on a "fake deeper voice and pretend to be a lad just to go to the shop"
What's that got to do with his underwear? Surely she's just saying that she found the whole act of pretending to be a man exhausting. So why do it? She's not a man – and of course she can be as butch and "unfeminine" as she wants as a woman. That's what people (used to) do. But…hey, trans…so the Beeb is all sympathy and tears. The only trans in the village.
Rhi Kemp-Davies, a non-binary therapist, said changing your appearance as a trans person to "pass" was often done to avoid violence.
Another sudden side-step. What? It's not even clear what's being said. The changing of appearance, surely, is what draws attention – though I'd take the threat of violence with more than a pinch of salt here, given the whole tone of the article. Has this person ever been attacked or suffered violence? I think we can take it that the answer is no, otherwise we'd be hearing about it – at great length.
Jay-Harley said he "would cry" and "lock myself away" every month when he menstruated because he had to wear female underwear to use sanitary products.
"I couldn't look at myself in the mirror, even though I would be wearing my suits – I knew what I had on underneath," he said.
"Every day was a battle to carry on."
He said his mental health and confidence would have been "so much better" if he had had guidance, support and underwear made for trans men.
I'm sorry, but….what??
After taking testosterone, he said: "I'm very lucky my periods have stopped, but they could come back, I won't know or have any warnings."
The sympathy: it has run out, disappeared, evaporated.













